Mandy asks…
Reading issues after LASIK?
OK, so i had my LASIK done in March 2010. So far at all my checks vision has been great, better than 20/20 at my last one, but for the last few weeks I have been holding things further and further away to see when reading printed text, when on the computer I move away from it etc. My next check isn't until September. I am 28 so surely I can't have this vision problem (presbyopia??) as it happens in over 40's?
admin answers:
You may suspect that Second common complication is Undercorrection & Overcorrection
It means there is residual refractive error impairing vision. Normal, these problems are temporary and resolve themselves in a matter of months. Occasionally, they are permanent.
Sometimes an initial Overcorrection or Undercorrection may occur and usually corrects itself in the first month.
If you have a significant undercorrection or overcorrection, A repeat laser eye surgery can usually be performed in an attempt to improve the uncorrected vision, and it is often successful. This usually takes place between six to twelve months after the initial LASIK surgery, after the vision has stabilized. However, if your corneas are either too steep or too thin, you may not be able to undergo an enhancement procedure. It also can be solved with glasses or contacts glasses.
Contact ur surgeon not hesitate
Complication, risk of Lasik eye surgery
http://www.lasikreviews.co.uk/lasik-eye-surgery-complications-risks.htm
Chris asks…
2 weeks laters blurriness in my eyes after LASIK? is it normal i am scared? pls help?
i went for the LASIK surgery on 29th of jan 2010...in india ...the surgery went fine and i had 20/20 vision..i had 2 eyes check up appointments after the surgery where the doctor told me that my eyes were perfect and i had to continue using my eye drops...the problem is that now i am back in US...and i am have this blurriness is it like normal especially when i go out in the night i see the street lights blurry or i mean i dont know how to describe it ...so is it like normal doctor said it takes 1 month for the eye sight to stabilize so i am kindda worried here...did this happen with anybody if yes r ur eyes normal now?
admin answers:
There are several possible reasons for your symptoms. You may be having regression in your prescription (some of you near sighedness returning). You could be developing an inflammatory phenomenon called "Sands of the Sahara." You could be developing epithelial engrowth under the corneal flap. The eyes could simply be getting dry and you are in need of aggressive lubrication.
This is why you should never ever get any surgery of any kind on any part of your body in a place where you do not having ready access the follow up care should complications occur. You need to go in to an eye doctor that is experienced in LASIK and be ready to pay him the money you thought you were saving by going to India so he can make sure you are not having serious complications and if your symptoms are serious then he can deal with them.
Richard asks…
Math Problem Please Help Me.?
A local ophthalmologist's advertising campaign included a certificate for free LASIK eye surgery for the lucky winner of a drawing. Ahmad had no vision problems and was uncertain what he should do with the prize. In February 2010, Ahmad's daughter, who lives with his former wife, was diagnosed with a vision problem that could be treated with either prescription glasses or LASIK surgery. The divorce requires that Ahmad pay for all medical expenses incurred for his daughter. Identify the relevant tax issues for Ahmad.
admin answers:
Tax to pay for the surgery
Tax to pay for the check up
Mark asks…
Could this behavior be related to the way I deal with stress?
Before you start to read, I would like to politely ask that you don't rip me apart about the behavior that I had. Since I lost my job, I've been doing a lot of reflection and I know how much of an A*hole I've been but I wasn't doing it with malicious intent...
THE DETAILS:
My life has been nothing less than an anxiety attack. my mom and I didn't get along because she couldn't keep me under her nail once I got into Junior High... She threatened room and board at 15 so I was forced into the work force the minute I turned 16 and when I wasn't working 60+ hours at Hollywood Video I was a soul searcher, seeking for my soul mate and a way to get out of my house... About a year after graduation (I graduated high school with a 1.0 (my parents didn't make school a priority), I met my wife to be. We met over the internet through an AOL dating personal ad that I put up and then after playfully messaging for several months, my wife got a web cam and then we were finally convinced to meet due to our attraction to each other; even though it was a 2 hour drive. She came to my house on 9/11/01 (two towers day) and that's when my life went EVEN more stressful (not because of her but the events that took place). In November we moved in to an apartment together. In December, we found out she was pregnant (delivered in July). I started my 8 year long career months after she delivered). In July 2004 we finally got married. In March 2006 we had a second kid. And now April 2010, I lost my 8 year career that supported the family forcing my wife to return to work from being a SAHM and me to become a SAHD and a freshman in college...
THE BEHAVIOR:
Ever since I met my wife, I knew she was the one for me because our personalities were very similar. We also were very sexual from the start (hence the early pregnancy). After we moved in, we were still very sexually attracted but at some point the attraction (or the excitement) started to go away. She was starting to act different and become more independent of me and pushing me away. She accused her acting differently on me and my lack of physically attention to her so I asked her change something about her looks to get me re-interested again. At first it was her bangs, then I asked her to bleach her hair, when she went back to brunette I asked her to do a perm, then I asked her to get lasik so she could lose her glasses, then I asked her to get all dolled up with makeup (she stopped after we met), and right before I lost my job she was blonde again.... I became OBSESSED with how she looked! It wasn't about attraction any more because no matter what she changed, she wasn't the same person as when we first met. It's now 8 years later from when we met and she's a totally different person than when I first met her, we don't have ANY of the same interests and to be frank, she's very distant from me (can you blame her?)... Do you think that my rushed adulthood and rushed relationship would explain me trying to change my wife's appearance all the time or do you think it was because she was changing and I was retaliating to her interdependence from me?
THE NOW:
Since I lost my job, I haven't had the urge to change her, as a matter of fact, I'm actually feeling relieved that I lost my job and that I can focus on my life now!!! After 10 years of being graduated, I finally have a chance to be a freshman in college and get to know my 8 year old son and 4 year old daughter... Oh and hopefully repair my marriage that I rushed into and ruined in the process.... If I wanted to change her in any way, all I would want is to help her with her skin problems (she has excema) and anything else I would wish to go back to the way she was when we first met (bangs and all) and start over with "hello"....
She IS born in July. We're both Cancers. Our birthday's are days apart. She's older by a year though.
admin answers:
I feel a lot of it with you was simply a "growing up" process you've gone thru throughout the yrs. Is the reason for your lifestyle changes. To be forced to work from age 16 you've done nothing but work work work! Then you got married & had responsibilities rite off the bat. Yes, I do feel you were "rushed" into adulthood from one thing or another, one reason to another. You barely had time to breathe & something new was added on to your many responsibilities. You even tho't by chging your wife would help change things but found that not to be true either. You just were trying to grab at straws for some kind of changes & didn't know what directions to go in. I certainly do wish you the best in college & this should enable you to get a good career & finally be able at a point in the future to settle yourself down & live a normal fairly stress free life. You have had one hectic growing up period throughout your whole life so far. You DO deserve a break from all this stress & at times being forced to actually go in circles as you didn't know what to do next to change things...I so wish the best for you, & a happy future you so deserve...:)
Susan asks…
Could this behavior be related to the way I deal with stress?
Before you start to read, I would like to politely ask that you don't rip me apart about the behavior that I had. Since I lost my job, I've been doing a lot of reflection and I know how much of an A*hole I've been but I wasn't doing it with malicious intent...
THE DETAILS:
My life has been nothing less than an anxiety attack. my mom and I didn't get along because she couldn't keep me under her nail once I got into Junior High... She threatened room and board at 15 so I was forced into the work force the minute I turned 16 and when I wasn't working 60+ hours at Hollywood Video I was a soul searcher, seeking for my soul mate and a way to get out of my house... About a year after graduation (I graduated high school with a 1.0 (my parents didn't make school a priority), I met my wife to be. We met over the internet through an AOL dating personal ad that I put up and then after playfully messaging for several months, my wife got a web cam and then we were finally convinced to meet due to our attraction to each other; even though it was a 2 hour drive. She came to my house on 9/11/01 (two towers day) and that's when my life went EVEN more stressful (not because of her but the events that took place). In November we moved in to an apartment together. In December, we found out she was pregnant (delivered in July). I started my 8 year long career months after she delivered). In July 2004 we finally got married. In March 2006 we had a second kid. And now April 2010, I lost my 8 year career that supported the family forcing my wife to return to work from being a SAHM and me to become a SAHD and a freshman in college...
THE BEHAVIOR:
Ever since I met my wife, I knew she was the one for me because our personalities were very similar. We also were very sexual from the start (hence the early pregnancy). After we moved in, we were still very sexually attracted but at some point the attraction (or the excitement) started to go away. She was starting to act different and become more independent of me and pushing me away. She accused her acting differently on me and my lack of physically attention to her so I asked her change something about her looks to get me re-interested again. At first it was her bangs, then I asked her to bleach her hair, when she went back to brunette I asked her to do a perm, then I asked her to get lasik so she could lose her glasses, then I asked her to get all dolled up with makeup (she stopped after we met), and right before I lost my job she was blonde again.... I became OBSESSED with how she looked! It wasn't about attraction any more because no matter what she changed, she wasn't the same person as when we first met. It's now 8 years later from when we met and she's a totally different person than when I first met her, we don't have ANY of the same interests and to be frank, she's very distant from me (can you blame her?)... Do you think that my rushed adulthood and rushed relationship would explain me trying to change my wife's appearance all the time or do you think it was because she was changing and I was retaliating to her interdependence from me?
THE NOW:
Since I lost my job, I haven't had the urge to change her, as a matter of fact, I'm actually feeling relieved that I lost my job and that I can focus on my life now!!! After 10 years of being graduated, I finally have a chance to be a freshman in college and get to know my 8 year old son and 4 year old daughter... Oh and hopefully repair my marriage that I rushed into and ruined in the process.... If I wanted to change her in any way, all I would want is to help her with her skin problems (she has excema) and anything else I would wish to go back to the way she was when we first met (bangs and all) and start over with "hello"....
admin answers:
Hm. I would venture to say that working put a stress on your life, and with the stress gone you're a more relaxed, happier, person. If you're unhappy with such a big aspect of your life it can tend to leak into other areas, especially with something as big as work.
I agree with you though, your wife shouldn't have to change her appearence for you to be interested in her, even though an occasional change wouldn't be so bad.
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